Health, Lasik, New Mom, Surgery, Uncategorized

That Time I got Lasik Eye Surgery

Sooo yeah, I got lasik eye surgery on August 16, 2019 and honestly, probably one of the best decisions I have ever made. I’m going to use this blog to tell you about my experience, pre, during and post operation.

What prompted me to have surgery?

Believe it or not, my son was the main reason that I decided to have this surgery. There is nothing worse than waking up in the middle of the night to a crying baby and not being able to see. For those of you who have had perfect vision your whole life, I can’t really describe the feeling, but a certain type of anxiety just takes over you when your entire world is a blur from the second you open your eyes.

I began wearing glasses at a very young age, while I was still in Elementary School. I really don’t remember what it was like to have perfect vision or if I ever had perfect vision at all. All I know is that my mom always said it was because I sat too close to the tv (in her most Dominican accent). It was nerdy and annoying at the time, but I couldn’t see, so I dealt with it. What else was I supposed to do? Throughout the years, it was more common to hear about people trying contacts and so ultimately, I jumped on that bandwagon and instantly felt a little cooler. It was very rare if you saw me in glasses because I got so accustomed to contact life.

Although contacts made me feel better and cooler, it wasn’t a 24 hour deal. At night, I was back to being blind. It was those nights where I had to make a bottle or change a diaper where I said “I can’t do this anymore”. I had Acuvue dailies, which meant that I would put contacts in before going to work, take them out before I went to sleep and left a pair of glasses nearby so I can fend for myself just in case I had to go to the bathroom. Again, when you have a crying baby, you just want to make the bottle and go about your business, but for us super blind mothers, there is that extra step of finding your glasses first.

For those of you who know about prescriptions, I was a -5.50 in each eye. It was pretty bad – my lenses were thick. I took my little blind self and went to a free consultation with TLC Laser Eye Centers in Waltham, MA (I believe they have TLC Laser Centers all over the U.S.). I was recommended by my eye doctor – he had great reviews! I had my appointment on June 20, 2019.¬†They were super nice and engaged in a lot of small talk. I’m guessing to make me feel comfortable, but it actually made me feel nervous. They had me in front of several machines with the goal of letting me know if I was a good candidate for lasik or not.

After about an hour of tests – my results came in and I was pregnant! Just kidding, wanted to make sure you were paying attention. lol. My results came in and I was a good candidate. They stated that my tests were valid for 90 days and if I was going to proceed, I would have to schedule surgery for that time frame, if not I would have to complete the tests again, which I totally wasn’t doing. I was actually traveling to Dominican Republic on July 12 and would have loved to have surgery before then but their spaces were limited so I had to wait.

The cost

The cost of the surgery was about $5700. It sounds like a lot, but the quality is amazing and I didn’t really put a price on being able to see. They said with my insurance, I was able to receive a discount and ended up paying a total of $4600. For the results I received, I would pay this several times over, trust me! People kept asking me why I didn’t go with a Groupon or somewhere else where Lasik was being advertised at half the price, and the simple answer is… I did my research. The doctor I went to had completed over 45,000 surgeries and has 5 star reviews. I sat there and read about 1000 of them with people having nothing but great things to say. The office also uses the newest and most advanced lasers. Also, during my consultation, I was observant and found this office to be super clean, calming and respectful.

The Process

Before

About a month before I had a pre-op appointment where they redid some of the tests to make sure nothing changed. That was smooth sailing. Then fast forward to about 10 days before the surgery, I received very clear instructions saying I couldn’t wear contacts anymore. I was on to glasses 24/7. This was a difficult transition for me, but I survived. The day before surgery, I had to start on drops (I don’t remember the name, but it was every 4 hours). The drops cost $45 and the office sent it directly to my home after I scheduled my surgery. Oh, not to mention no makeup for a week before surgery. No lotion, moisturizer, anything really day of. The day of, they give you a Xanax to calm your nerves – you can decline this, but I sooooo took it. About 30 minutes before, they put you in a calming room with dimmed lights, reclining chairs and soft music. I really felt like I was in a spa. I saw my leg shaking profusely to my leg not moving at all within minutes.

During

Moment of truth. The nurse comes to the calming room and tells you it’s your turn in a super bubbly, cute way. I was not in the mood, because I was too scared. I’m almost positive I rolled my eyes at her. They lay you down on a table and put a little cushiony pillow thing under your knees for comfort. Then they lay your head directly under 1 laser. I say 1 laser, because apparently there were 2 lasers (I didn’t know this until day of). The doctor puts a little clamp into the left eye (it sounds all Serial Killer like, but I promise it was painless and quick). He then puts several numbing drops, waits a few seconds and then you feel the machine closing in on your eye. You feel pressure, but there is no pain – I REPEAT, NO PAIN! He even counted 30 seconds and said “done”. I was a bit confused because I still couldn’t see lol. He repeats the same steps with the right eye. Then they press a little button and the bed I was on shifted under another laser. This was a similar process, but no pressure, it was about a minute each eye. After about 2 minutes under this laser, he says “alright you’re all set”.

The nurse helps me up and I open my eyes. To my shock, I was able to see!!! It was frosty and still a little blurry, but about an 80% improvement to my normal vision. It was crazy. The entire surgery took about 5 minutes. A 5 minute surgery that cost me $4600 gave me the ability to see. The sentence you just read, I have been repeating to everyone and myself since August 16, 2019.

After

You instantly feel like you have a hair in your eye and you want to rub it like crazy, but unfortunately, you can’t. The doctor’s recommendation was to take a nap as soon as I got home and the discomfort will be gone by the time I wake up. I did that and it worked. Best sleep ever. When I woke up I had to start on the same drops as before for 7 days, every 4 hours. I also had to use preservative free tears – this is common for people with dry eyes or people who have had this surgery. I went into an appointment the very next day and a week after, and my vision kept improving. The only minor issue, which is normal for the healing process was seeing halos at night when driving. They said this would go away in about 3 months.

Overall

I would definitely recommend this surgery! Definitely one of the best decisions I have ever made. Below you will find a few more of my pros and cons. If you have any questions, comments, etc. Find me on IG @enidcarolyne, follow and send me a DM.

Pros

  • Initially, very welcoming
  • Clean offices
  • Payment is easy – they offer options
  • Quality
  • Great reviews
  • They complete touch ups if needed
  • Quick
  • Painless
  • You’re able to see
  • They do a good job of calming you before surgery
  • Doctor is super nice

Cons

  • I do feel like they could have called more for reminders on how and when to use drops, or a call before surgery – I literally had to remember that my surgery was on that day
  • Pricey
  • For follow-ups, they were never on time for my scheduled appointments, which got annoying

 

Makeup

I Promised Makeup

Donde empiezo? When I created this blog, I didn’t want to limit myself to just my hair – I am a Jane of all trades and have the ability to provide insights on makeup as well. So, here it goes. As a teenager I went through the stage of wearing heavy mascara and eyeliner that was so uneven and out of the place that I couldn’t dare call them sisters or cousins, it was more like ex- best friends. That’s the only way I could describe each of my eyes; however, with practice came swift drawn cat eyes that I became very proud of. As social media describes, my eyeliner has the ability to CUT you, slice you, or whatever la juventud calls it nowadays.

It wasn’t just my eyes. I had uneven tones all over my face, a lack of color and to top it off, I was blessed with a cowlick in my left eyebrow – I know what you’re thinking, and trust me, I’m over it. Anyhow, growing up I always read that symmetry meant beauty; therefore I spent thousands of dollars (over the years, I’m not rich so this wasn’t 1 day) becoming my own makeup artist – self-taught. Visit my IG for some photos: @enidcarolyne

Here goes my current everyday look process:

  1. Moisturize and Prime face. Currently I am using the Cetaphil Daily Facial Moisturizer and ELF Cosmetics Hydrating Face Primer. Did ya’ll know that ELF stands for Eyes, Lips, Face? Mind Blown.
  2. I always start with my eyebrows first because it takes the longest – thank you cowlick, I appreciate it. I never steer away from Anastasia Beverly Hills, I just feel like she is the queen of brows and it has worked for me for years. I use the ABH Brow Definer in dark brown. I first outline, fill in and brush out to ensure it looks as natural as possible. I then use NYX concealer in 04 to clean up and give it a more defined look. Lastly, ABH Brow Gel to make sure my brows don’t smudge.
  3. The third step is to work on my eyes. I really like the natural colors here; therefore, I am loyal to the Tartelette Amazonian Clay Matte palette. First, I put some of that NYX 04 concealer and then I get to work. My go-to colors are ‘super mom’ and ‘free spirit’ for the base and lid and then a mix of ‘force of nature’ and ‘wanderer’ in the outer edge and crease. Yes, that’s all folks, I am basic as f***.
  4. Let’s finish off that eye with Kat Von D’s Tattoo Liner and Better Than Sex Mascara. I do not put on eyelashes for my everyday look. I am way too lazy for that.
  5. I am OBSESSED with Fenty Beauty’s Foundation – I dab it all over my face. Side note: YASSSS RiRi! Then I use Kat Von D’s Lock-it Concealer Creme and draw a triangle under my eye. With anything in the makeup community – blending is highly important. I then do a little baking with Laura Mercier Translucent powder.
  6. By now – I look like a complete ghost; therefore, it is time to put some color back in my face. I use the ABH Contour palette to enhance my cheek bones, but also to cover up my massive forehead. Then, I use my NARS Bronzer/ Blush Duo palette to finish off the look.
  7. Highlight that face girl – for this step, I use BECCA Highlight in Opal or Champagne Pop. I normally put it on my cheeks, tip of the nose and my cupid’s bow (lip).
  8. My everyday look lipstick is either MAC Teddy or NYX Suede in Sandstorm (07).

This was a super lengthy post – if you would like to see a quick video on how I apply these products. Please visit my IG. Don’t forget to comment and like.

For kicks and giggles – how I calculate the cost of my face:

  • Cetaphil Daily Facial Moisturizer: $16.99
  • ELF Primer: $6
  • ABH Brow Definer: $23
  • ABH Brow Gel: $22
  • Tartelette Palette: $46
  • NYX Concealer: $5
  • Better Than Sex Mascara: $23
  • Kat Von D Tattoo Liner: $20
  • Kat Von D Concealer: $26
  • Fenty Beauty Foundation: $34
  • Laura Mercier Translucent Powder: $38 Purchase here!
  • ABH Contour palette: $40
  • NARS Duo: $24
  • BECCA Highlight: $19
  • MAC Teddy Lipstick: $18

Just know that when I walk out my house, I am walking around with $361 worth of makeup on my face. LOL #depressing

xoxo